Open Letter to Roger Rinn, Child Psychologist

Below is a letter I sent Roger Rinn, Huntsville psychologist used by my ex-wife Dora Heisey and under the guide of her lawyer Bill Burgess to "treat" my son for my ex-wife's claims of him being traumatized by my public awareness campaign to expose what Judge Little has done in this family court tragedy. Back in the year 2007 our son wrote two separate letters to each parent stating that he wants equal time with each of us. His mother ignored her own sons request and so has Judge Kevin Grimes, Judge Loyd Little, the Alabama Civil Appeals Court judges and Alabama Supreme Court judges. The letters are private writings by my son that he did while at school in the 5th grade in a session with his school counselor. He is now in the 7th grade. No parent was present or knew about it until after he wrote his own personal feelings down on paper. I will not publish these on the internet to respect his written privacy but will be glad to share them in person with anyone who doubts my word. I included copies of the letters to Roger Rinn in the letter I wrote below. I highly doubt my ex-wife revealed her sons feelings in these letters to Roger Rinn in her attempt to alienate me further from our sons life. One day this too shall pass...............



January 10, 2010

Mr. Rinn,

Please find the enclosed letters that my son, Blake, wrote while he was in the 5th grade at Heritage Elementary. He wrote these letters under the guide of the school counselor, Mrs. Anaid Shaver. Mrs. Shaver asked Blake to write down what he would like to say to each parent and he did. Blake was having difficulty with the changes in his life and routine that was brought about by his mother’s legal actions and Judge Little. Or, if you prefer, per his mother, all because I became a firefighter. You can deem for yourself which set of actions actually affected my son for the worse – his dad becoming a firefighter or his time and routine with his dad being much more drastically altered by the legal actions sought by his mom and the inconsistent and multiple and reversed rulings issued by Judge Little that dealt my son much upheaval.

Getting to my point of this letter, I am sending you copies of the letters my son wrote, on his own accord, WITHOUT either parental influence or presence (which is something that is in complete opposite to the conflicts created with his mother bringing him to you and Burgess sending them to you). Did his mother every present these to you?

My son knew, at the age of 10, what those of you around him tasked with helping him in his “best interest”, refused to accept and acknowledge. He wants to continue the solid relationship that he had known his entire life with both his mom and dad. He asked for things to go back to having equal time with both mom and dad. He even states that is in his best interest for his schooling and so forth.

However, his mom refused to honor his request, saying what she was doing was for his best. And then in addition to his mom’s refusal to help him, the school counselor and his teacher were unable to help this along as well. Add to that his mother’s lawyer, the many judges, and now you – none of you have helped my son with his request.

I assure you, that your multiple actions of blocking me from getting my son’s records from your sessions fell right in line with the lack of help for my son and my son will learn of this soon one day which in itself will further expose all of you that have FAILED to help him.

I also assure you that you are not getting anywhere near the truth of the issues as you rely on Mrs. Heisey and Burgess as your primary resource. You refuse to acknowledge my son is under pressure by the one Judge Little has given 100% control over him – his mom.

The day after trial on June 29, on Tuesday, June 30, 2009, at 2pm, I spoke to my son on the phone. I asked him a generic question “When was the last time you saw your counselor?” My son replied that it was a couple weeks ago; that his mom took him; that he does not ask to go; that he did not say much to you in your session; that after they left, his mother was mad at him for not talking to you very much. How’s that for manipulation? How’s that for parental alienation? How’s that for abuse? My son being denied equal time & protection with BOTH parents is state sponsored child abuse.

Read these letters from the child that is at the center of this litigation. Read these letters that Judge Little’s rulings created and Judge Grimes refused to consider. Help my son or get out of his way and stop taking our finances that can be of better use for our son. You will be judged by a higher being than any of us.

Regards,

Blake's Dad (signed)

Chris Hobbs (printed) 256-479-1915 Call Anytime

P.S. Before, during and after my sons mother filed her most recent lawsuit in May 2008 and the trial in June 2009, my son has repeatedly asked me to come to his basketball games & practices, his football games & practices and his track & field events. I have went to all that I could possibly attend. Now while you were "helping" my son with your expertise and as a result of your "help", Judge Kevin Grimes has eliminated my visitation rights which all goes completely against my sons own desires and needs. These very needs that his mom, you, the judges and all who claim to be working for my sons "best interest" have all worked very hard to deny my son for now over 13 years. THAT will be on your head forever as a contributor to child abuse for assisting in a childs life being removed of a fit and loving parent.

Did it EVER dawn on you to contact your patients father to get BOTH sides of this dilemma instead of taking one parents input? And YOU'RE the expert? Please......