Me and my Dad

Me and my Dad
I Love My Son! For More Info On My Son's ABUSE at the Hands of State of Alabama go to www.WhyJudgeLittle.com

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Alabama State Sponsored Child Abuse

If a parent chooses to not see their child, whether it is none at all, or one or two days a month, or whether it is just a few times a year, then you, yes you, as a society along with the judges, lawyers, psychologists, etc....call this parent a "deadbeat", a "loser", a "sorry person", along with other unmentionable names.

However, if the people who make up society AND represent the State of Alabama AND the citizens of Alabama, yes you, YOU are represented by the JUDGES of Alabama, when these same parties decide to remove a childs parent from their life and limit it to a few days a month, a few holidays each year, a few weeks during the summer time, THEN it is labeled as being all "ok", "acceptable", "legal", "lawful", "right and proper", all "in the childs best interest".

Do you see ANY difference in the two scenarios above? Overall, no, you shouldn't. Unless you have another agenda BESIDE what is truly best for our children - BOTH parents being as involved as possible in our childs life to give them the best chance at becoming a worthwhile part of society. And if you believe seeing your child a few days each month provides you ample time to be the best parent you can for your childs need then you are fooling yourself.

Summed up - When a parent fails to be involved in their kids life you criticize them but when the judges make decisions of the same kind that are equal or worse to abuse of our kids by removing a parent from a childs life all of you look at it as acceptable and ok.

Can anyone see the irony in this and how unacceptable the treatment our children are being dealt at the hands of not only misguided and warped parents but also the single person, the judge, who can put an end to the nonsense the child is having to endure?

Under the current Alabama issued standard custody guidelines, a NON-CUSTODIAL Parent will only spend 4 years of the first 18 years of their childs life.

Under the current Alabama issued standard custody guidelines, a NON-CUSTODIAL Parent will at times go up to 3 weeks without being able to see their child. How is the NCP to 'parent' on issues that took place two weeks ago? It simply isn't realistic nor possible.

Another easy method to determine a CUSTODIAL Parents true interest in what is best for their child is to ask them if they themselves would be willing to be subjected to the SAME custody guidelines as placed upon the NON-CUSTODIAL Parent?

Most likely the answer is an astounding and loud "NO".
And there, my friend, you have your answer and proof that the decades long manner of the judges of Alabama in Family Court treating our kids and parents is a failed policy and the dysfunction that has been a result of the "winner take all" Alabama family court system.

For our childrens sake, we CAN and SHOULD do better than this blatant civil rights violations of our childrens right to BOTH parents.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Open Letter to Roger Rinn, Child Psychologist

Below is a letter I sent Roger Rinn, Huntsville psychologist used by my ex-wife Dora Heisey and under the guide of her lawyer Bill Burgess to "treat" my son for my ex-wife's claims of him being traumatized by my public awareness campaign to expose what Judge Little has done in this family court tragedy. Back in the year 2007 our son wrote two separate letters to each parent stating that he wants equal time with each of us. His mother ignored her own sons request and so has Judge Kevin Grimes, Judge Loyd Little, the Alabama Civil Appeals Court judges and Alabama Supreme Court judges. The letters are private writings by my son that he did while at school in the 5th grade in a session with his school counselor. He is now in the 7th grade. No parent was present or knew about it until after he wrote his own personal feelings down on paper. I will not publish these on the internet to respect his written privacy but will be glad to share them in person with anyone who doubts my word. I included copies of the letters to Roger Rinn in the letter I wrote below. I highly doubt my ex-wife revealed her sons feelings in these letters to Roger Rinn in her attempt to alienate me further from our sons life. One day this too shall pass...............



January 10, 2010

Mr. Rinn,

Please find the enclosed letters that my son, Blake, wrote while he was in the 5th grade at Heritage Elementary. He wrote these letters under the guide of the school counselor, Mrs. Anaid Shaver. Mrs. Shaver asked Blake to write down what he would like to say to each parent and he did. Blake was having difficulty with the changes in his life and routine that was brought about by his mother’s legal actions and Judge Little. Or, if you prefer, per his mother, all because I became a firefighter. You can deem for yourself which set of actions actually affected my son for the worse – his dad becoming a firefighter or his time and routine with his dad being much more drastically altered by the legal actions sought by his mom and the inconsistent and multiple and reversed rulings issued by Judge Little that dealt my son much upheaval.

Getting to my point of this letter, I am sending you copies of the letters my son wrote, on his own accord, WITHOUT either parental influence or presence (which is something that is in complete opposite to the conflicts created with his mother bringing him to you and Burgess sending them to you). Did his mother every present these to you?

My son knew, at the age of 10, what those of you around him tasked with helping him in his “best interest”, refused to accept and acknowledge. He wants to continue the solid relationship that he had known his entire life with both his mom and dad. He asked for things to go back to having equal time with both mom and dad. He even states that is in his best interest for his schooling and so forth.

However, his mom refused to honor his request, saying what she was doing was for his best. And then in addition to his mom’s refusal to help him, the school counselor and his teacher were unable to help this along as well. Add to that his mother’s lawyer, the many judges, and now you – none of you have helped my son with his request.

I assure you, that your multiple actions of blocking me from getting my son’s records from your sessions fell right in line with the lack of help for my son and my son will learn of this soon one day which in itself will further expose all of you that have FAILED to help him.

I also assure you that you are not getting anywhere near the truth of the issues as you rely on Mrs. Heisey and Burgess as your primary resource. You refuse to acknowledge my son is under pressure by the one Judge Little has given 100% control over him – his mom.

The day after trial on June 29, on Tuesday, June 30, 2009, at 2pm, I spoke to my son on the phone. I asked him a generic question “When was the last time you saw your counselor?” My son replied that it was a couple weeks ago; that his mom took him; that he does not ask to go; that he did not say much to you in your session; that after they left, his mother was mad at him for not talking to you very much. How’s that for manipulation? How’s that for parental alienation? How’s that for abuse? My son being denied equal time & protection with BOTH parents is state sponsored child abuse.

Read these letters from the child that is at the center of this litigation. Read these letters that Judge Little’s rulings created and Judge Grimes refused to consider. Help my son or get out of his way and stop taking our finances that can be of better use for our son. You will be judged by a higher being than any of us.

Regards,

Blake's Dad (signed)

Chris Hobbs (printed) 256-479-1915 Call Anytime

P.S. Before, during and after my sons mother filed her most recent lawsuit in May 2008 and the trial in June 2009, my son has repeatedly asked me to come to his basketball games & practices, his football games & practices and his track & field events. I have went to all that I could possibly attend. Now while you were "helping" my son with your expertise and as a result of your "help", Judge Kevin Grimes has eliminated my visitation rights which all goes completely against my sons own desires and needs. These very needs that his mom, you, the judges and all who claim to be working for my sons "best interest" have all worked very hard to deny my son for now over 13 years. THAT will be on your head forever as a contributor to child abuse for assisting in a childs life being removed of a fit and loving parent.

Did it EVER dawn on you to contact your patients father to get BOTH sides of this dilemma instead of taking one parents input? And YOU'RE the expert? Please......

Monday, July 13, 2009

Trial events of June 29, 2009

I went to court room without a lawyer. I am done with that part of this scam of a system. Whoever said the person who represents himself has a fool for a client - it was probably a lawyer saying it since this cuts into their profits. I have no real desire to throw away $30,000 in lawyer fees to fight for (insert loud laugh here) 'justice' in our judicial system. If anyone wants to donate their $30,000 to me please let me know and I can burn through it quickly in pursuit of justice. The lawyers would be glad to see me coming again!

I told Judge Kevin Grimes I had no confidence in the legal system, no confidence in his actions, no confidence in the entire process due to the history of how the judges have treated me and my son unfairly. I told Judge Kevin Grimes I would not take part in the court room process this day.
He told me to sit down and then proceeded to ask my ex-wife Dora Boston Heisey & her lawyer Bill Burgess if they wished to continue with the lawsuit and my ex-wife stated "Yes, I want him put in jail." Judge Kevin Grimes then rolled his eyes according to witnesses in the court room.

Judge Kevin Grimes then told my ex-wife and her attorney to proceed with their first witness.
Seeing they were going to continue with the trial as normal, I stood up and walked out of the court room following through with my statement to the judge that I would not take part in today's proceedings.

After I walked out, the bailiff and 2 sheriff deputies then confronted me outside the court room and the bailiff told me at least 3 times to get back in the court room because the judge told me to stay put, sit down, and remain in the court room.
I repeated just as many times in response that I had informed the judge I was not going to take part in today's proceedings and I was not going back into the court room.
The bailiff, seeing I wasn't going to follow his instructions, went back to the court room and informed the judge of my refusal to go back in the court room. Judge Grimes then asked my ex-wife's lawyer, Bill Burgess, if I was a flight risk and Burgess replied "No, but he is a publicity risk." Judge Grimes told the bailiff to let me go. The bailiff relayed this info to me outside the court room. I remained outside the court room with friends while about 12 friends remained in the court room listening to the witnesses called by my ex-wife & her lawyer which consisted of Lydia Davenport, principal at Heritage Elementary; my ex-wife Dora Heisey; and Roger Rinn, psychologist.

My friends encouraged me to come back into the court room to speak to the judge and at least let him know why I am doing my 'Why Judge Little?' campaign.

At first I refused to go back in the court room but relented to appease my friends.
I have zero confidence in Judge Grimes and the judicial process.
Judge Grimes did permit me to get on the stand and speak about what brought me to doing the public awareness campaign.

I do believe that if Judge Grimes listened to the testimony from my ex-wife and her witnesses that the decision is simple and it is easy to see a very misguided person in my ex-wife that seeks to destroy her son's father.

After 10 plus years of constant lawsuits filed by my ex-wife against me, one can only dream of a judge that has the wisdom to do the right thing. That may be too much to expect from Judge Grimes but only time will tell. We await Judge Grimes ruling and I will post the results here and everywhere else that I can.

It is sad that when a father walks into the court room, he knows he has a 90% chance of losing his rights to his child(ren) only because the dad was born a male - something none of us have any control over.
I can relate to the black community as they have been dealt injustices for hundreds of years only because of their skin pigment - something they had no control over.



You have rights if you choose to stand up for them.

If you you refuse to stand up for them then I do not believe you deserve them.

One day in the near future, the names of Judge Loyd H. Little, Jr. and Judge Billy Bell and many many others will be looked upon as the worst of the worse when the future generations make right the wrongs being done to our children by judges and lawyers who have put their ego's, greed & power above all ethical and moral standards.

And one day I do believe that me and my son won't have his mother, her lawyers, the judges, nor the state of Alabama, to block us from having the time, bond, relationship and love that we have shared and should be continuing to share this very day.

Acts 18
9 Then spake the Lord to Paul in the night by a vision, Be not afraid, but speak, and hold not thy peace:
10 For I am with thee, and no man shall set on thee to hurt the: for I have much people in this city.

I love and miss my son!
Chris Hobbs

Friday, May 15, 2009

Motion DENIED; NEW Trial Set

The hits just keep on coming! Judge Kevin Grimes totally DENIED my motion requesting this current lawsuit to be dismissed on the basis of case law that confirms my right to Free Speech (First Amendment Rights according to the United States Constitution). (Refresher: my ex-wife Dora Boston Heisey wants me put in JAIL, FINED, and ordered to stop doing my public awareness campaign - here is the catch all - when my son is in my presence.) Judge Grimes simply gave us the standard one-word answer DENIED- without any explanation. He then set a new trial date June 29 & 30, 2009, 10AM Madison County Courthouse, Huntsville, Alabama. Yes - a 2 day trial to bash me for speaking out against those who have forsaken my son. This is YOUR tax dollars at its most wasteful manner of keeping “law breakers” like me off the streets while the hard core criminals have their Constitutional rights protected at greater extent than any of us brought before a civil court room judge. You do realize jail is jail - they don't have a "civil" jail and a "criminal" jail – it’s all wrapped up into one. When the other jail mates ask me what am I in for how hardcore will it sound to say “Cause I was fighting for my son’s rights and other children’s right”. Actually, I have already spoken to inmates who told me they wish they had a dad that devoted the energy to their kids as much as I and many other dads have to their kids. One inmate even questioned Judge Little’s ruling by stating “What, does he want your son to wind up like us?”

It can easily be determined that by Judge Grimes denying my motion to dismiss based on my First Amendment protection, that Judge Grimes has no regard for case law, for the U.S. Constitution, for my right to the First Amendment, and that being his position now then it will be his position in June.
End result = Guilty Mr. Hobbs.

So by putting me in jail - I must ask - How will that make things better? But according to our wise lawyers, judges and legal system they control like pit bosses, that is their great and wise answer to making citizens who speak out against the horrific things done to our children and families behave like good little sheep.

My Why Judge Little public awareness campaign is coming to a close, slowly but surely, because of opposition from the judges, lawyers, my ex, financial issues, stress, the city of Huntsville sign ordinances, and too many people unwilling to stand together to fight for our children's rights.

For those who have chosen to be apathetic, you have contributed to the current system of our kids being robbed of their loving and fit parents, extended family and friends. For evil to succeed all it takes is a good person to do nothing. And trust me, neither you nor your kids nor your grandkids are immune to these things striking your families. Statistics prove that more than half of you will endure this in some form during your lives. It is the epidemic 'cancer' upon our families. You know someone that has cancer, you may have it, or you may get it. Likewise with divorce, custody, unwed births, and children having one or both of their fit parents ripped from their lives - it too can strike at the heart of your family. For example, how many grandparents are unable to be with thier grandchildren because of a misguided ex-son or daughter-in-law aided by the judges and lawyers?

I knew there were risks in my choices when a person speaks out against the status quo. I will accept the results and wage on through it all because of strength that comes from a source much mightier than Judge Grimes, much mightier than Judge little, and much mightier than Dora Boston Heisey.

In the process, while I have made my life a bit tougher and a bit tougher on those around me, it will be worthwhile if I can help some other child be given their rights to their father and mother so they can be loved by as many people as possible, to know they have people around them that care about them, and to know they have someone to lean on when life throws them some troubles. I was once the very child I speak of.

That's all any of us are really looking for anyway - to be loved.

I found my relief in my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ who lived the very things we experience each and everyday. He gave His life to save us from ourselves.
It just took me a troubling ordeal to bring me where I needed to be (doesn’t it always?).

I am thankful for it all.

Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

I miss my son and I love my son very much. I want him to know it always.


An individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for the law. - Martin Luther King, Jr

Just as there were generations that looked back at those who came before them who put in place oppressive and destructive methods against the black men, women & children, the future generations did away with these prejudiced ways because it was very simple to see the prior generation had lost their entire moral compass in living with their fellow black man, woman and child. There will come a day when the future generations look back on how ALL fathers, mothers and children have been destroyed by the judges, lawyers, legislators and entire system that profits at the expense of all of our flesh and blood. The future generation will correct these tragedies just as civil rights movement corrected the racism nightmare. They will look back and ask themselves "What were they thinking when they removed children from fit parents?" The last 30 years or more of judges, lawyers and legislators have lost their entire moral & ethical compass. Rarely, if ever, do those who make the rules have to live by them. You can’t keep destroying generation after generation of children and expect a positive outcome.
– Chris Hobbs

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Freedoms?? Don't buy the hype...

trial date Feb 20, 2008 - new Judge Kevin Grimes from Cherokee County, Alabama (because none of the judges in Madison County will do their job and hear any case with my name in it anymore because they are scared of their actions being scrutinized publicly - so the Alabama Supreme Court assigns it to out of area judge Kevin Grimes). Judge Grimes tells both attorneys they only have 30 minutes each to present their info. Of course, at a combined total of $550 an hour, both attorneys agree they cannot present their info in that time so they then agree to present their info in written briefs and the new judge will make his ruling from those.

I do commend Judge Grimes for being very business like and efficient in him telling the attorneys they had only 30 minutes each to present their info. I doubt he was doing it to spare me the costs I will bare for this round of litigation but it helps regardless. This trial was supposedly an emergency hearing that began back on May 30, 2008 in which my ex and her lawyer were so concerned with our son being traumatized by my Why Judge Little campaign. Judge Grimes simply said if you can't tell me in 3o minutes or less, then it must not be an emergency (these are my words, not his). I thank Judge Grimes for sparing me many hundreds and thousands of dollars since I have grown accustom to being court ordered to pay my ex wife's lawyer fees no matter even if she fails to prove her case. Thanks Judge Little. Your legacy will go on forever if I can help it.

And remember, this is all done behind closed doors, in the judges chambers, so not even the plaintiff nor defendant, nor the 22 supporters of mine in the court room, none of us can actually see how these back door deals are actually done.

Oh how the judge (who is nothing but a lawyer with a black robe on) and the lawyers hold our little itty bitty insignificant lives in their great and mighty wise and powerful hands.

So we play the waiting game.
Will judge Kevin Grimes sentence me to jail, fine me and order me to stop my Why Judge Little campaign as my ex-wife Dora Heisey and her lawyers Bill Burgess and Rebekah Howard Graham requests?

Or, will Judge Grimes respect the First Amendment of the United States Constitution and grant me the honor and privilege of continuing to exercise the freedoms that I really never thought would or could be denied by a local judge nor from someone who simply dislikes something I am doing?!?!?

Keep in mind, NEVER forget, there is a young son, now 12 years old, that is the reason for this litigation, the reason the custody battle, child support and lawyer fees wages on, and has now since 1997. My son deserves equal rights to BOTH parents - NOT a proven litigation seeking, money seeking, control seeking parent and a parent defined as a visitor ordered to have a check in hand or they can't see their child. The lawyers and judges enable people like my ex to engage in this conduct and actually encourage it so they all keep getting paid at my son's expense.

For all us veterans who served our citizens of the USA, who died, POW's, risked life and limb for the things we were taught this country stood for and was created - let you all beware that those things you are dying and being maimed and giving up years of your lives to protect - its all a bunch of propaganda and hypocrisy. It just upsets your mind in acknowledging this and knowing it to be true as you witness these freedoms destroyed by the judges, lawyers and leaders of this country.

You only have the rights and freedoms that those in charge allow you to exercise.

Is that really freedom?

Monday, September 29, 2008

No rights to your children's medical records

Today I went to get my son's medical records from a psychiatrist that my ex-wife took him to twice earlier this year. The doctor, Mr. Roger Rinn, refused to provide me copies of my son's medical records. The doctor had his secretary tell me that I had to have a judges court order for him to provide me copies of my son's medical records.

So here is the REAL way things operate:
1 - I pay for everything (insurance, child support, lawyers fees, court costs, etc...)
2 - I have no rights to any of the things I pay for nor any say so in any aspect of my sons life.
3 - As the parent, I have ALL of the liability but no rights to any of the things I am responsible for according to Judge Little's order.

Sound like a reasonable deal to anyone?!?!?

Yet our leaders, doctors, judges, lawyers all say this is the way it should be.

When will all of you decide you are sick of the judges, lawyers and doctors telling us we have no rights to our own children's medical records - will you finally stand up and fight for your rights?

And if any of you wonder what is wrong with America just look in the mirror.

Everyone that takes an indifferent approach, bury's their head in the sand, you enable the abusers of all of our rights to go unchecked - which has led to the way things are today.

You have no rights nor deserve any if you are unwilling to fight for them.

No rights to the most precious thing you have - your children.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Why Judge Little? goes to Washington, DC

I made it! Actually, we made it. Several others arrived this morning in the nations capital to speak out for many of our children and parents who are abused by the judges, lawyers, and ex's that seek their own self-serving interests instead of what is really best for our children.

This event is called 'DC Festival 2008' http://www.dcfestival2008.com/ to be the voice of our children.
Being able to present our info and goals in a civil manner to our leaders and citizens is one blessing that many of you fail to utilize in pursuit of solutions for your problems.

Civil disobedience. Civil protests. Rally's. Gatherings. Fellowship.
These rights are being denied here in the USA and many are unaware of it. Look into how Bush puts so much effort to make sure the protesters exercising their constitutional rights are pushed far far back away from his public events-out of the sight of the media. The local police are used in many of the cases to oppress our civil rights. There are thousands of videos in this country of this happening. Google it. You don't have to go to China to see the people being beat up and worse.

This is my first trip to DC and I consider it a combination of things: civics lesson, field trip, learning how to lobby, understanding the in's and out's of the 'system', learn how to get things done and simply to open my eyes to whole new world.

We met with legislative aides of congressmen/women today and have more meetings over the next 2 days. They were considerate to listen to our concerns and ask for their assistance in bringing a positive change to how our families and children are being treated by the judges.

There are people from all over the country here to help you and your children.
Every day, regular folks, just simple people that have a real desire to make a difference while they are here on this earth. The point is that you can do something to help if you so desire.

I love my son and miss him. And I know this is all for his benefit and many others. I want him to know he can make a difference in his world. The best gift he can give is to help others in need. I have all I need in God. And so does my son. I want him to put it all to work!

Thank you all for the support, prayers, help, and I promise it will be all worth it.
More importantly God promises it will be worth it!

Chris